Jan
You are not alone in your loss, there are many travellers who have lost loved ones...
I have not been to India but it is very popular I started using JY in 2006 and have travelled the world with them on approx 12 tours.
You see and do so much in a very safe way. I go for the full on tours so I am busy all day.
Tour size varies but I like about 30-35 people it gives a good mix for me..obviosley like life you won’t gel with every one, but it’s only for say 2 weeks...
There are fantastic laughs along the way, and sometimes even tears but thats all,OK...
Have a look at the reviews that are online about the tour I am sure there is lots of information you can gain..
Just book it go with a open mind and have FUN!!
Cindy