Hi Roger,
This is a really lovely tour, please don't be put off by the transfer time from Naples. It's a beautiful journey.
The issue with Lamezia is that there was a Monach flight direct from Gatwick but it the airline cancelled it. As Julia mentioned in her reply to your posting when we do fly to Lamezia it is currently with Alitalia from LHR via Milan or Rome - so although a shorter transfer to the hotel, it means a full day of travel with a long wait at the transit airport because of flight connection times. So actually a direct flight to Naples and then the longer coach journey results in you arriving sooner at the hotel!!
Anyone worrying about the transfer time shouldn't be put off, because as well as a beautiful journey it gives the TM time to tell you things that otherwise would have to be done in the hotel.
Calabria is a much less touristy part of Italy, incredibly beautiful and this is an interesting and leisurely tour.
Happy Travelling,
Sarah