Hi there
I am 42 and joined this site a few months back as always end up going away with family or going to stay with friends abroad but not the same. I went through everything in my head, thought of discovery weekends but then ones that fancied were a way out plus thought the cost could go towards main holiday. After reading a lot of views of other people in same boat on here, I decided to just go for it and booked about a month ago to Kenya in March, as wanted to do something sooner rather than later before I chickened out.
I am nervous but really looking forward to something have always fancied, and thought 'what's the worst that can happen'!
I will have to let you know how it goes, but I now have contact details of someone else on same trip. which they arrange if mutual, so will at least break the ice a bit.
Good luck!