Hi Spaggs, Anna here. I am in a similar situation to you. My husband left me in January 2010 for another woman. Fast forward over 2 years and I am now divorced (happily I might add). I am 53 and although I am very confident naturally I did feel myself "withdrawing" into myself a little - too happy with a good book and quite at ease with my own company, etc. BUT we all know that that isn't good in the long term. SO, as I have always loved travelling a colleague's mom recommended JY to me. I have booked my first holiday to Kusadasi in September this year. I'm sure it will be great, so all I can say is take the bull by the horns and go ahead and book something. I know you won't regret it. Let us know what you decide. Anna