Hi Dottiegirl,
I discovered singles holidays after finding myself single again after many years. I eventually found enough courage to book my first trip in 2010 and have my eighth tour (Inspirational China) booked this year. This latest tour will be my fourth with JY and have always found them to be well organised and the accommodation of a good standard.
Where to go???? Well, perhaps there is somewhere you have always wanted to visit, in which case the decision is fairly easy (for me that place was Egypt and a Nile cruise). Alternatively, you may have an interest that can be catered for on a particular tour (eg animals/natural world = safari!). My JY trips have all been long haul, having previously been to South Africa and twice to the USA. South Africa was a great experience, as was the National Parks trip (the one that includes Little Big Horn and Mount Rushmore) and more recently Hawaii and LA.
Basically, singles holidays have allowed me to do and see things that I never thought I would (see the sunrise over the Nile from a hot air balloon, visit Abu Simbel, see Table Mountain in Cape Town, stand at the Cape of Good Hope, see a lioness with three cubs a few feet away in Kruger National Park, take a helicopter ride over the Grand Canyon, tour Monument Valley in a 4 wheel drive vehicle.....the list goes on). So my advice would be to book something that appeals to you, whether that be near or far, as you will not regret it.
Taking that first holiday is always a bit daunting, but it's exciting too, and you'll find that your fellow travellers are friendly people who can become your new best friends! I hope that I've been able to reassure you and set your mind at rest.
All the best and good luck with your booking.
Mike