I've made a decision to try a short city break first, and Joy Elizabeth it sounds like you had a party and a great way to make new friends and it is much easier keeping in contact via modern technology. India should be a fantastic trip and if you know who will be going too you're not totally alone. I too have thought that if I can go to Egypt I can do anything but it's just taking that first step that I'm nervous about, but I will do it. New Year resolution, I can do it!!