Hi,
Congratulations on booking your holiday. I promise you you will not regret it JY'ers are a friendly bunch and will endeavour to make you feel welcome. At the end of the day you are all there to have a good time and i am sure you will.
If you look at the thread under Important Threads, there is an anecdote from someone who was in a similar position to you- his fears before going and how relaxed he felt on holiday and how he had nothing to worry about.
Everyone that goes on JY has a differnet back story. Widowed, divorced, single, young and old, gay and straight male and female, ect none of this will matter.
all the best and dont forget yto post a review upon your return.
Any more questions, fire away!
Mark