Welcome Joyce
Sorry to hear about the loss of your husbands, there are many people like you who find JY a great way to travel.
The American Golden West is a very popular tour, but not one that binnacle been on. I have been in 4 USA tours they can be quite full on, and can be many hotels along the way, but you do get to see so much along the way. I am sure you will be fine. I will be going in my 10th JY tour this year if you have any questions please just ask and I am sure someone will be able to answer them.
JY is a very safe way for ladies to travel.
Good Luck.
Cindy