Hi,
Thank you to everyone who has replied to me, I am so reassured now, it is also really nice to know there are people in the same boat as me, widows and widowers. For the last few years I have been looking at my married friends who go off on exotic holidays every year, and feeling that that will never happen again to me, and that that part of my life is over. But this site and all its lovely friendly people has really changed my mind. As you say, life is short, we have to enjoy it while we can. I have definitely decided to book up for India now, and although nervous, am getting very excited! Is anyone else thinking about going to India next March?
Best wishes,
Jan 🙂