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I too totally agree with Sim. If couples / friends / relatives etc travelling together on a Just You holiday do not wish to mingle, then it is their loss. I would just leave them alone. This would not stop me from having a good holiday.

Jaya

Strangely, I got an unsolicited brochure for another company in the mail today.

"Specially designed holidays for those who are travelling alone or with friends"

So it's a normal holiday then?

I have been on 11 JY holidays as a single traveller. I think couples whatever the mix is, miss out on the JY experience i.e meeting new people, sharing interests or learning new interests. If you try to join any group at home as a single person it is very difficult to integrate as I have experienced.

JY travellers are a mixed bunch and are single travellers for all sort of reasons and I have many memories of talking and laughing late in to the night as we all shared our stories. Couples tend not to join in or are reluctant to reveal all. After all after your holiday you will probably not see the people you met again but travel and new people broaden the mind.

I'm happy to see the different points of view from others in the forum, so thank you for that. I hope to continue enjoying holidays with all the interesting people who travel with JY.

Rae

Hi All

What an interesting topic. Conversely, I for one would be disappointed if I wanted to travel with Travelsphere as a solo traveller and was told that I couldn't as it was for couples....

Regards

Sylvia

'sim1' wrote:

Does it really matter?

Yes these holidays are aimed at single travellers, but surely its up to the individual or couple what they do. And just because they do not mix, its their loss. I have seen some single travellers not mix, even after being approached by different members of the group.

And if JY start (which they do not) saying this person or that couple cannot travel, where would it end.

So stop worrying about what others are doing and get on and enjoy your holiday.

I agree with Sim1 entirely. My view is that what other people do on their holiday is there business.

If it is a large group I do not think it matters if a few people keep to their friends and do not mix. If it is a small group that holiday could well be cancelled if some people were banned because they are not travelling entirely alone.

I have been on 10 singles holidays (always alone), each group has been different as regards mixing and I have enjoyed every one.

Does it really matter?

Yes these holidays are aimed at single travellers, but surely its up to the individual or couple what they do. And just because they do not mix, its their loss. I have seen some single travellers not mix, even after being approached by different members of the group.

And if JY start (which they do not) saying this person or that couple cannot travel, where would it end.

So stop worrying about what others are doing and get on and enjoy your holiday.

My sister and I are booked on the Flavours of Tuscany in October. I am a widow and this will be my 7th JY holiday. Jen is married , has two sons and two grandsons. She cannot wait to have a whole room to herself, learning Italian for her first trip to Italy.

There was a couple on the trip to Heart and Soul of America last November, always sitting together on the coach, went everywhere together- very annoying as they only joined in when they had to :blush:

Jan

Sorry but i cant get worked up about this but if a "couple" wants to book to go away with a singles group and pay for seperate rooms then share, more fool them i would say.

Have seen it once but to be honest it was a big group and the fact they didn't mix i never saw as a issue, I've seen many people travel together such as friends, cousins, workmates, mother/daughter, niece/aunt, sisters etc. Some of these have mixed with the group others haven't but the same can be said of some solo travellers (very rare).

On my recent Tuscany holiday i was asked if a group of us that were getting on well had travelled together, the answer was NO we had actually met the night before at the airport hotel through this forum (i've never travelled with anyone else but have occasionally known others from previous holidays, but not planned to book same trip).

On these holidays most people make friends and group up a few days into the trip, that doesn't mean they leave others out, its the way it is. Not really too much different to travelling with someone, its your loss if you dont mix.

On the 2nd type couple, someone who meets on holiday and clicks i see no issue whatsoever, we are grown ups and it happens anywhere, lots of singles together increased odds i would say. Lets be fair its very rare (less than one couple per holiday i would say)and in most cases moves on after the holiday rather than on the holiday. But if it is happening to somone and i see they are getting on well i'd just give them a bit of space.

All this makes it sound like these holidays are full of friends and couples, that certainly isn't the case the vast majority (95%+) are solo travellers.

Mick

'stu151' wrote:

Julia

This has been raised a few times in the past, and I accept it's difficult to police.

JY is as you say, a company for people who wish to travel alone, and while there are a lot of people in relationships, who travel without their partner (for various legimate reasons), I find it very strange that a couple travelling together would use JY. There may be "couples" who, for whatever reason, don't wish to share a room, but one would assume they do actually want to be together during the holiday, and thus would be better with single rooms on a Travelsphere holiday.

I understand that JY used to offer a discount to people who wanted to share a room, with either double or single beds I guess. I have to say that I find this very odd for a singles holiday company, thus mayby you could confirm that if I rang you and wanted to share a twin room with a friend, we would not be offered a discount by JY, or any of its agents.

Thanks.

Stuart

Hi Stuart,

I can confirm that not only would you not be offered a discount for sharing a room, you wouldn't be able to book a twin room.

This may have been available in the past (and is still available by some of our competitors), but I have just spoken with the head of the holiday advisors team and when asked the question whether or not we would allow a pair of friends to share a room the answer was a flat no.

Kindest regards,

Julia