I have to moderate all posts on the forum just so we keep a nice safe environment, I moderated your first post a little while ago, you can find it here,

http://www.justyou.co.uk/forum/thread-53482.html 

Kindest,

Ben

Just registered and thought I'd sent a msg under "new thread" but it hasn't appeared. How long does it take or have I done it wrong?

Cheers